"I never imagined childhood sexual trauma would one day lead me to living under a bridge in Seattle—homeless, hopeless, and wondering if life was even worth it. I had lost direction, buried under the weight of pain I didn’t fully understand. But that wasn’t the end of my story.
Through hard work, healing, and a relentless pursuit of meaning, I fought my way back. Resilience took me from under the bridge to Microsoft, to Amazon, to grad school, to CPS to building this MSJ. Today, I coach and walk alongside other male survivors here and around the world—not as someone who has it all figured out, but as someone who’s been to the bottom and knows the way out. You don’t have to hit rock bottom to start rising. I'm here to help you begin before it gets that far."
- Coach Thomas -
year program, new trust, porn-free, healthy relationships,
just got married, in armed services
Hear What Our Clients Have to Say about their Journeys.
"After finding Thomas on the internet, I urged my husband to get
help and work on his male survivor issues. He enrolled in the program.
Now we are living our best life." - Angela from Canada
Jimmy C. 36
Thomas this coaching program is so rich. You can tell that your lifetime of working with survivors influenced it. I've worked with a therapist prior. When I started your course with the weekly coaching, strategies and the breadth or your neuroscience knowledge in helping to understand what's occurring in the brain as we face various challenges is so needed. I know she did what she could, but I felt a bit cheated with my therapist and wish I would have known about this program earlier. I will be moving on the Managing and Manifest parts of this journey. - from Washington -
Elwon , 42
" I just finished the first module, Acknowledge, it's August. I'm so glad for the break in between modules. It is so true that it's like years of insight, strategies, and unraveling in months instead of years. This is coming from a person who thought he had already done tons of work, not like this. With Thomas coaching along the way and the ability to interact and ask questions, share insights, it's totally better for me than just talk therapy. I'm moving with more confidence and establishing boundaries already. - - - from Chicago -
Xavier, 44
"As a high-functioning man, I didn't want to admit that the abuse really affected me. Being an executive was my cover up to say I'm okay. No one would ever think I had abuse issues. Yet it was so lonely. "Thank you so much for your flexibility and traveling to my location for the intense sessions. Totally worth the investment. Even my confidence, decision-making and strategic thinking have improved from working through issues. Plus your ability to not let me talk BS helped. I'm indebted to you.
- from New Zealand -
Rashad, 51
" I started with the first workshop. Totally sold. I began the coaching program. It felt so comfortable being able to share details with someone who actually empathetically related to being a sexually abused man. Understanding my trauma type and trauma leveling greatly helped me overcome some nagging questions and lifelong challenges. It's amazing eradicating the noise. I can't believe it. He also helped me to build my own profitable business using some of the same strategies to relieve the past trauma. He helped recession proof me. - from Arizona -
